First things first...Happy Birthday Shawn and Happy Belated Alpha Male!
Now...one thing that I don't like about the dating process is that stage in the middle. Both parties have put their interest in one another out there and and the getting to know you process starts.
Then as you progress, your emotional investment gets bigger. You eventually get to the point where you can't define them as your man/woman for various reasons yet but you realllllllllllllllllly want to.
Then when other people get to sniffing around them you want to say something but you can't.
That's kinda where I am.
Oh man, don't get me started on the what ifs!!!! They will kill you almost every time. It seems like the more you open yourself up or care the more what ifs come to mind. Ugh!
Then I feel bad for thinking on both sides of the coin.
I will figure out an easier way to get through this stage in the process one of these days.
*sigh*
I just got to work and my coworker who will have a name soon has already pissed me off! I am trying hard not to allow her to stress me, but the heavens know that I would do anything to take her outside and bash her head against the brick wall a few times. I don't want to kill her, just send her to the hospital with a lifelong scar to remind her to stop fucking with me and other people. It's too early for this shit! I swear I am deciding if I should go to my administrator and request that she be given my position and I be given hers. The pay is the same and the work is just about the same so I won't be losing on much but a title. I don't know how much crap I can brush off from her anymore.
Please pray that she says NOTHING else to me today.
Okay for those who listen to the Michael Baisden show there was a gentlemen who called in today talking about how he thought little girls could be raised by single fathers if they had a support system. Just like single women could raise little boys if she had support and male role models.
THAT WAS BABYDADDY! ROFL
You know I had to call and pick on him!
19 comments:
Get her some coffee with a lil stomach medicine in it LOL..that will keep her away from her desk for a while
I hate that phase as well, but I also detest the phase where you're together and you like them way more than like but are you ready to call it love and on top of that do they like you like you like them..I could go on and on as you can see LOL....
LOL, she actually like to use the restroom near my office so that wouldn't work :-( She can stay at her desk alllll day and I will be good with that. She actually has to get her work from my office so seeing her may happen if I am around when she runs out of work, however, she don't have to say nuttin' 2 me nor look my way, just pick up some work and walk the heck out.
Oh don't get me started on the "do they like you like you like them" stuff! Jees Louise!
Have yall talked about where the relationship is going? You said you want him as your man so tell him. Somebody has to take the first step.
I am praying for you!
I am with southerd on this one. Maybe you should talk to him. I know to well about that feeling you get when someone else starts sniffing around him.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope she just gets somewhere and sat down and don't say not nare a word to you.
just smack her one good time.. u'll feel better... she'll leave u alone.. all will be well! LOL
i hope that she says nothing else to you... EVER!
dang, you already starting the day mad. don't let those folk take you there!
Awww, I hope everything goes well with you and your new honey.
Regarding the annoying co-worker....it's not mainhater is it? Well regardless, sounds like you two need to have a meeting in the ladies room and get some things understood. And no, not to get anything started to just to make sure there is a clear understanding of what's what.....you are the boss of her no?
Southern, we've talked and we are progressing nicely in wonderful direction which I should be thankful about...but there is that part that wants to put the peddle to the medal even though I know it will more likely than not mess things up.
Tantrum, I love your monkey! It gives me bad thoughts! LOL Your prayers are working! :-D
DNT, we've been talking. As far as the chick, so far so good.
TTD, I am not ready to leave my job just yet. LOL
Nikki!!! I have been brushing stuff off for a minute and I am reaching a limit when it comes to her.
Ar-gal, it will go the way it's supposed to, but I hope it goes well as well.
It's not Mainhater. I have to come up with a name for her since she has been mentioned several times on my blog already. *sigh* Technically I am her team lead so yeah, but I don't really have no power like that. I can't write her up or nothing.
Put hands on a muthafukka, forgive my intrusiveness ;?
*wink* Forgiven.
I am so not surprised at your comment and I would do it if things were different and I didn't need my job right now! LOL
I know how that feels. I got a couple of Skeezoes and Heffas here that been beggin for a country ass whippin. They know my 930 rule and my no-talking-to-Kell-before-coffee rule.....
girl i so feel u on that "stage" when u figure it out holla ok?
And beat that tramp if you can. LOL
LOL, I will J I will
I can't and I have not seen her since our "chat" this morning so I am st8 and in a pretty good mood :-D
The tension between men are work is not hard to handle, but with women ?!? LORD its hell.. lol
I mean there has been "hatred" between me and some of my male coworkers in the past and life was still going on, but when it was women, they either HAD to be hypocrites and force smiles and conversations or become virtual warriors of a team that was battling against mine...
I was like " damn ! why cant we just ignore each other ? "
Thank god i found a better job.
The worst part of liking someone is wondering when to start taking things to another level... its not always easy to tell what the other person really thinks of you...
Hang in there on both the job front and relationship front. My guy and I are in the getting to know you phase too. We did decide that we would be exclusive with each other, though he made the first move.
Soldier, I agree that woman handle things differently than men do on the job front.
and RIGHT! It's hard to gauge sometimes :-(
E, I am hanging in. I am in better spirits and I have already saw and spoke to ole girl and my emotional state is still calm. YAY!
You and Rock are cute. :-D
Igght Babygirl, dont go kicking ur co-workers asses-- they will lock ur black behind up--lol..
as far as dating, u got to let that shyt flow- if it meant to be- it will come.
Oh I know and she is an older white woman too! Oh yeah I'd have me a little record! LOL
*sigh* I know I know, I just don't wanna know...
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