Now let me just put it out there that I know men do what I am about to put out there too, but you always hear about the woman doing it...
What is it? Pursuing a man that has a significant other already.
My coworker has been kicking it with our US Postal Service mail guy for months. Everyday when it's about his time to come to our building she is either outside or in the lobby. They always talk and do whatever for 15 minutes and he leaves. Everyone knows he is married, including my coworker. Does she care? Nope! In the beginning other coworkers would tell her to leave him alone and it goes in one ear and out the other. Nobody says anything anymore. I try not to wish bad things upon people, but before I leave this job I want the wife to come up here. Just to see how things go down.
I know there are plenty of wom..,'cuse me, dumb broads who prefer men that are with women already for various reasons (all stupid IMO). I hear them on talk and radio shows defending themselves and talking about how it's the girlfriend/wife's fault for not taking care of her man, I'm better than she is, blah blah blah blah...
The men involved, like the mailman in this case, are just a guilty because the dumb broads won't be able to get the man if the man doesn't allow himself to get got. I know you can't help who comes on to you but you can control how the hell you respond!!!! I mean what ever happened to turning the other woman down? What happened to respecting your woman? I mean dang, if a dude came on to me. I'd smile, accept the ego stroke, decline the come on and keep moving. Is that so flipping hard?
Then if it's the involved dude coming on to the chick, what kind of woman are you to willingly go into this type of situation? I mean obviously the dude isn't loyal so what the hell? Human dick is better than the toys but shit I KNOW there are SINGLE and UNATTACHED men out there who are willing to just fuck you if all you want is someone to fuck! I mean really!
Again, I want the wife to come up here...just once.
Edit, seeing them do what they do all extra affectionate like nothing is wrong has bothered me so. I can't help to think what if I was the mailman's wife. Even though most women know when something is up, what if she was under the impression that all her hubby does everyday at work was what was in his job description? What would I do? I've been cheated on more than my fair share of times and I have an idea of what my reaction would be if I was back in her similar situation. *sigh* I had to email Snookums and ask him not to play with my feelings while it was on my mind. I don't think he's doing anything disrespectful, but I had to ask him not to play me. He is a grown man that will do what he pleases, but I can still had to ask to put it out there.
God, to be in that place again....*sigh* I hated that place. I hate thinking about being in that place. Dammit!