I just got an email from my cousin and I have no one to express my feelings to cuz it's still early and I gotta let my opinion out.
Quick backround without telling too much of my cousins business:
She got married @ 19, currently in mid 30's had 2 kids by husband. Husband started cheating, they break up and get back together for many many years. She does her thing, he does his. The last time they try to make it work he makes a baby by someone else *should be born now, it was due late Feb* My cuz takes a brief vacation and this morning about a half hour ago I get an email from her talking about her and some dude I never heard of (only because I am not very close to the vine on the family grapevine)getting married in 2007!!!!!!
WHAT THE HELL!!!!!
I hit her back stating the above exclamation and asking who the heck dude is! She hit me up with the lovey dovey crap about how he is the love of her life and she would marry him today if it wasn't for her divorce not being final yet!!!!
AAAAAAAAAGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
All I can say is that getting married again is NOT the answer for her right now. This is just my personal opinion, but this is just "revenge" for him having a baby with someone else. I could be wrong, very wrong! Maybe this dude IS the one, maybe this IS right, maybe this IS God's plan for her, who am I to say...but I still don't think this is a good idea!
Da hell is she thinking?
7 comments:
gurrrrl....sounds like she has some I-don't-wanna-be-alone issues. *smh* when will folks learn it is "The 2 shall become 1" not "two halves make a whole" grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence, then you jump over there and notice all the brown patches. :|
DAYUM. i HATE when i see fam doing things detrimental to their emotional and physical health. i hope your cousin wises up before it's too late. meanwhile, you can't let this stress you out. ultimately she's an adult and will do what she feels is right for her. all you can do is love her and hope.
gee-i hate to see people get ahead of themselves like that...maybe u can talk some sense into her cuz there's nothing worse than riding the sidelines while u watch someone go down. and if he IS the "one"-what's the rush?
whew!!!
u never can tell...pray 4 her
MzA - I don't see how? She is an attractive lady with a figure I wouldn't mind having. She can have almost any brotha she wants! I can almost put money down that she can hang with a different brotha every week if she wanted!
Hot Spot - I know!
Nikki - I can't stand it! I told her that she is nutz but she on some cloud nine ish!
MissA - ain't nothing I can do but sit back and try to save up for this wedding in Jamaica! :-(
DR&C - it's a mess!
Ladynay,
Girl you would be surprised at how many attractive women have serious self-esteem issues.
lol, she just wants to get back at him... :-)
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