Sunday, August 27, 2006

Happy removing a human from my body day!!!!!!

In other words today is Pooka's birthday. She didn't want a party, she didn't want to go anywhere, she didn't even want a cake! The only thing she wanted and made sure she reminded me everyday for the past week was chocolate icecream, not even a chocolate icecream cake, just st8 up chocolate icecream! I hope all her birthdays will be easy to provide! LOL So this morning we ate chocolate icecream in the special occasion dishes and she can't be any happier. I am aware that chocolate icecream for breakfast isn't the proper thing, but birthday's are once a year and she won't die from it and neither will I.

Yesterday we went to Pooka's god brothers party. Tension was high but everyone stayed pretty much on the calm side and didn't act a fool. Something did happen to LadyKat and she left the party for a little while. I don't know what went down, but by time she got back she had apparently freed her mind of whatever it was. I had an old moment when this song came on called Chicken Noodle Soup. All the older young kids and teenagers got excited and moving in synch like they had been practicing this routine for months. One, I never heard of this song and Two, I never seen the dance. Am I completely out of the loop? No, cuz some of the other parents where looking around like WTH too! LOL I am only 26 I am shouldn't be THAT far out the loop. LOL Anyways we watched the children get there chicken noodle soup on and proceeded to talk about how artist are truly running out of things to sing and rap about. At least folks are not still singing/rapping about how much what they have on cost or about how many people they had sex with that day all the time. *shrug*

My girl who'll I'll call Model for the stories sake told me some news that bothered me. Her and her husband are getting a divorce after some serious years in. Their son is 10 and they where married a few years before they started to try for kids so my guess is about 13-15 years, somewhere around there. Model's husband is Party Girl's boss so he makes mad money. Then add to the fact that he was one of the original people to put some serious start up money into a record label that currently has artist on the radio right now just tells you what kind of status they were on money wise. I mean when they vacationed it was never in the states type stuff. As long as I have known Model she has been a housewife. I met her when I was pregnant so that makes at least 5 years and some change that she has not been working for uncle sam. She is not stupid by any means so her finding work won't be too too hard and I am sure her hubby is going to pay some nice alimony so she is not going from riches to rags, but her lifestyle is going to change. I am sure she won't stay single for too long either cuz as soon as she gets over this situation and is ready to be back on the single circuit someone is going to swoop her up real quick and I told her that. I mean Model is 6'2"-6'3" barefoot, caramel skin, just below shoulder length hair, slim frame with a hand full of T, A, and hips. She may not be curvy but dudes that like a leggy woman will have a field day with her. She is just gorgeous. She could be a real model but she is anciently old in model years to be just starting out.

I didn't ask her what happened because when she mentioned it to me and I finally took her seriously (I thought she was playing for awhile and was looking at her ready for her to start laughing and tell me she was playing) she was giving me the don't ask me details vibe. She said that she was happy about it and it's all for the best but when she said it, it sounded like she was trying to convince herself of that too. She also said that she wished she knew that New Years was the last party she was going to throw, which tells me her husband initiated the divorce. It's just so jacked up. So now our original crew has all broken up. Years ago a bunch of us couples would get together to eat drink and be merry while the kids run around playing. Me and Babydaddy started the breakup trend then one by one marriages and long term relationships were falling apart. Model and Party Girl's boss are the last relationship to end completing the process. Dang this sucks! It seemed like they had it all together from the outside. It just continues to show that nobody knows what goes on in other peoples households.

Now for more chocolate icecream!

22 comments:

Freaky Deaky said...

A lot of things look good on the outside until you start kicking the tires, looking at the bones, and noticing the flaws. Ran out of metaphors. LOL Just goes to show that just because something looks tasty on the outside doesn't mean it isn't spoiled and rotten to the core. Hey, guess I didn't run out of them after all. ;o)

Chicken noodle soup? I'm halfway tempted to google it but I can already feel my brain cells killing themselves. If it isn't peanut butter and jelly it's chicken noodle soup, what's next? If anybody does a song about government cheese, I'm demanding my cut...now!

I hope Pooka and you have a happy birthday. Can I have some ice cream too?

Ladynay said...

Yeah, it just took me awhile to wrap my mind around them getting a divorce.

Don't waste your time on the soup song. Gov't cheese was the BOMB! Oh my goodness!!!! The kind that came in that huge rectanglar box???? That was some good a** cheese! If someone makes a song about gov't chesse it better be good! ROFL

Pooka's day was/is fun thus far and the icecream is gone, I got you on the next container tho' *wink*

TTD said...

happy birthday to pooka!! it's always disturbing to hear when a couple splits.. especially when it seemed like everything was great on their end...

fuzzy said...

Happy Birthday to Pooka!!! I have had ice cream in obese increments all this week! You enjoy your ice cream...

Ladynay said...

TTD - it is disturbing, I can't even think of what could have happened.

Fuzzy - you and Pooka both got bit by the icecream bug this past week!LOL

fuzzy said...

:-) There's a story to these posts LOL

I got post happy all in one day and well you can't post all these posts at one time because people are like me! I'm not going to read 6 posts at one time... but I just changed the dates on the posts so now they should show that they start on saturday and I'll probably post everyday intil my drafts are gone!

ps: I luv ice cream, had some more last night with a waffle bowl, whipped cream, strawberry topping that I made (if you want the recipe i'll give it to you, its easy I swear) and sprinkles. SOOO GOOOOOD!

Ladynay said...

You wasn't gonna make me think I was losing it...nope, no way...lol

The icecream sounds kinda self explanatory. Unless you making all your stuff from scratch, then yeah shoot me an email.

LUVIN ME said...

I'm glad Pooka enjoyed her birthday!

You never know what's going on behind closed doors. Some people see my relationship as being perfect, but it's not. We just work hard to maintain it, but it is far from perfect.

Ladynay said...

Luv, all relationships that stand the test of time require work. Thats very true.

It was still shocking to hear her say divorce tho', it was just one of those things that you wouldn't even fathom. Alas, reality is what it is.....

meljoy said...

That's okay, Aaron eats weird things for breakfast too, like right now he's eating pretzels. of course i'lll give him something like waffles in a few inutes, but for now, he's good. :-)

6'2", geeeez... That was my problem in modeling, I'm only 5'7, I can be 5'9" in shoes, but the shortest they want is about 6 foot... you know what really pisses me off? Every guy I've been with always tells me the same thing "You are the tallest woman I've ever dated". Gee, thanks.

Honey-Libra said...

That just goes to show that what looks good and solid on the outside isn't always like that.

That chicken noodle song annoys me it doesn't make sense not that other songs do

Birthdays are all the reason to have ice cream for breakfast LOL...

Ladynay said...

Okay I KNOW I responded to Mel already!!! Pretzels are healthy so that's not too bad and the guys you date must be used to below average woman height wise cuz 5'8" is the supposed norm...

Honey I just replied to your blog. Make sure you soak in the tub tonight. I didn't even attemt to make out the words to the soup song.

Freaky Deaky said...

I see I'm going to have to be like one of those guys stalking people at the grocery store to carry their bags to the car for a dollar if I want some ice cream from you. ;oP

Even with my simple palate, I've always hated government cheese. I don't like the way it looks or smells. Yuck! However, I will collect any and all royalties on the song.

I'm glad she had a great birthday.

Ladynay said...

Nah Freaky yah don't have to stalk, just ask promptly! Goodies go fast on my side of town, gotta get in where yah fit in! hahahahahahahaha

*gasp* you didn't like gov't cheese???? Why am I not surprised? LOL

MzNewAgenda said...

Yeah...you never know what goes on behind closed doors..

Happy Birthday Pooka!!!!

ShawnQt said...

Wow, already for Chocolate Icecream, lol

ShawnQt said...

Oh yeah, Fuzzy stop eating icecream!

~HoustonNY~ said...

I want some ice cream damn it!!! LOL... tell ya baby Uncle HoustonNY says happy b-day!

Chicken Noodle Soup! Some of my younger co-workers were trying to get me to listen to the song and I flat out refused. I don't even want to see what the stupid dane looks like. But in saying that, I can remember when I was younger and these crazy dances came out and we were so excited to do them. My parents and older family members would just shake their heads in total disbelief. Are we becoming our parents!!!

OK, I'm going to do that next week. Every one of us will write on that same topic at the same time. I'll set it up!

Ladynay said...

New New, yeah yah never know...thanks for my baby's b-day wishes!

QT, let the man eat his icecream! LOL Just make sure he's with chall when yall go running! :-D

Terrance, it's so scary, but we are becoming our parents. At least I am slowly becoming mine!

blkbutterfly said...

ok, i'm mad late, but happy birthday to Pooka! how old is she? 5?
lord, i hate that chicken noodle soup song. it blows my mind what passes for entertainment nowadays.

4EverJennayNay said...

You silly!

That title is too much!

Happy Pookah's Bday!!!

Ladynay said...

BB, she is 5! I can't believe it. I think everyone 20 and over don't get the chicken noodle hype! LOL

Nay, I can't say the same stuff all the time, gotta switch it up erry nah and again.