In other words today is Pooka's birthday. She didn't want a party, she didn't want to go anywhere, she didn't even want a cake! The only thing she wanted and made sure she reminded me everyday for the past week was chocolate icecream, not even a chocolate icecream cake, just st8 up chocolate icecream! I hope all her birthdays will be easy to provide! LOL So this morning we ate chocolate icecream in the special occasion dishes and she can't be any happier. I am aware that chocolate icecream for breakfast isn't the proper thing, but birthday's are once a year and she won't die from it and neither will I.
Yesterday we went to Pooka's god brothers party. Tension was high but everyone stayed pretty much on the calm side and didn't act a fool. Something did happen to LadyKat and she left the party for a little while. I don't know what went down, but by time she got back she had apparently freed her mind of whatever it was. I had an old moment when this song came on called Chicken Noodle Soup. All the older young kids and teenagers got excited and moving in synch like they had been practicing this routine for months. One, I never heard of this song and Two, I never seen the dance. Am I completely out of the loop? No, cuz some of the other parents where looking around like WTH too! LOL I am only 26 I am shouldn't be THAT far out the loop. LOL Anyways we watched the children get there chicken noodle soup on and proceeded to talk about how artist are truly running out of things to sing and rap about. At least folks are not still singing/rapping about how much what they have on cost or about how many people they had sex with that day all the time. *shrug*
My girl who'll I'll call Model for the stories sake told me some news that bothered me. Her and her husband are getting a divorce after some serious years in. Their son is 10 and they where married a few years before they started to try for kids so my guess is about 13-15 years, somewhere around there. Model's husband is Party Girl's boss so he makes mad money. Then add to the fact that he was one of the original people to put some serious start up money into a record label that currently has artist on the radio right now just tells you what kind of status they were on money wise. I mean when they vacationed it was never in the states type stuff. As long as I have known Model she has been a housewife. I met her when I was pregnant so that makes at least 5 years and some change that she has not been working for uncle sam. She is not stupid by any means so her finding work won't be too too hard and I am sure her hubby is going to pay some nice alimony so she is not going from riches to rags, but her lifestyle is going to change. I am sure she won't stay single for too long either cuz as soon as she gets over this situation and is ready to be back on the single circuit someone is going to swoop her up real quick and I told her that. I mean Model is 6'2"-6'3" barefoot, caramel skin, just below shoulder length hair, slim frame with a hand full of T, A, and hips. She may not be curvy but dudes that like a leggy woman will have a field day with her. She is just gorgeous. She could be a real model but she is anciently old in model years to be just starting out.
I didn't ask her what happened because when she mentioned it to me and I finally took her seriously (I thought she was playing for awhile and was looking at her ready for her to start laughing and tell me she was playing) she was giving me the don't ask me details vibe. She said that she was happy about it and it's all for the best but when she said it, it sounded like she was trying to convince herself of that too. She also said that she wished she knew that New Years was the last party she was going to throw, which tells me her husband initiated the divorce. It's just so jacked up. So now our original crew has all broken up. Years ago a bunch of us couples would get together to eat drink and be merry while the kids run around playing. Me and Babydaddy started the breakup trend then one by one marriages and long term relationships were falling apart. Model and Party Girl's boss are the last relationship to end completing the process. Dang this sucks! It seemed like they had it all together from the outside. It just continues to show that nobody knows what goes on in other peoples households.
Now for more chocolate icecream!