Thursday, August 17, 2006

What if?

A member of your past tells you a member of their past is infected.....

It's not life threatening and you've been tested since your last physical connection, but you still can't help but wonder.....what if????

Like I really need more negative stuff to think about.....

Still waiting on that opportunity to cry.....

Being single isn't so bad.....

Nor not actively dating.....

Rather deal with a bill collector than deal with a health issue.....

Life goes on.....

**edit** Went to the doc by the blessing of a cancellation, he diagnosised me negative by the 1,000,007 questions and coochie review. Lab work is being sent off. If you hear or read about some young black chick in Raleigh killing some young black dude in a couple weeks, yah may wanna note the name. If it's mine, you know what happened :-D

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

just to be safe...I'd go and ask SPECIFICALLY for a test for whatever it was they told me they had.

Ladynay said...

yeah...I am looking into local places that will do it for free.

LUVIN ME said...

I'd get tested, just to make sure. Stay safe, and you're right, where health is concerned...being single isn't so bad.

Ladynay said...

I am going to Luv and I have always been safe in my sexual endeavors...except for the oral stuff and I that may have to change on the real for real. My mouth can't be looking all crusty. Ugh!

Ladynay said...

Yah know Mel, I am actually kinda calm. Being that so much time lapsed I would have been seen symptoms by now (you know I been online looking up mad info, LOL). But I am still going to get checked out.

TTD said...

i'd get tested.. again! and make sure not to reconnect w/ that person from your past again

meljoy said...

I was just say what I would have done. Don't follow my example, EVER!

Ladynay said...

TTD giiiiiiiiiiiiiirl you don't have to worry about him being inside of any opening in my body ever again! I never had it in the plan to get physical again with him anyway but this seals it! LOL We can still hug, but dat's bout it!

Mel, everything you do isn't all bad, you could be an example of a few things...like how to deal with teachers that ain't doing their job! Cuz of you I am bringing my camera with me everytime I go to Pooka's school! LOL

Freaky Deaky said...

I don't really have anything to add other than what's been said. See if whatever the person has is or can be asymptomatic. You could also research to see how long it takes for signs of infection to show. Rather than worry yourself crazy, after all a little knowledge is dangerous, ask to be tested specifically.

If you do hug dude then don't let him hug you from behind. ;o)

Ladynay said...

Freaky darling, I have been on it since he told me last night! LOL The more stuff I read the more convinced I don't have it. But I will still get the test done.

Ladynay said...

Iza wurkin on it....

Emotionalbrotha said...

People can make u want to love ur mind up n here.. up in here.. a few months ago i got a call from the Health Department.. that was some scary stuff, but i didn't have it, although they still mad me get a shot in the ass.

n no hugging with that fool either.. it clouds the brain.. find u a new cuddle buddy

Ladynay said...

EB, I don't think I commented, but I remember reading your post about that. I swear stuff like this makes you think real hard......

Freaky Deaky said...

Can I hug you...from the back? Um, just in case you do end up killing old boy.

Ladynay said...

I need to see your STD clearance first Freaky! hahahahahahahaa

lj said...

DAAAAAAAAAMN...That's scary.

Ladynay said...

Yeah, it's kinda scary thinking of the possible outcomes.

Freaky Deaky said...

Damn, do I have to wear a condom when I hug you too? ;o)

Ladynay said...

Latex with spermicide please....*wink*