Thursday, October 12, 2006

Ma Mickey

Ma Mickey aka Party Girls mother is not expected to live out the week. The family decided to cut off her life support either today or tomorrow. There are no words. Just tears.

Who knew when she came and partied with us labor day weekend it would be the last time? She makes it a requirement to give her a hug and kiss before you leave her presence. She knows her extended sons/daughters/grandkids love her just as much as her blood family.

She knows her God so she will be just fine. I just wish it wasn't her time already. Depending on the dates, I may make my DC trip a NY trip.

13 comments:

meljoy said...

lol @ the pay thing, and death... I don't even know what to say kuz yea... I recently went through it as well, it's hard. I'll just say, as long as they know where they are going and there's not torment, everything should go fine. I wish the best feelings for you and her family...

Ladynay said...

I can only hope I don't have to be the one to have to decide when to pull the plug on someone I love. I can only imagine what it's like and what thoughts go through your head.

jameil1922 said...

just be glad your last memories w/her are good ones. its much harder when they're not.

Ladynay said...

Jameil, you are right. It just happened so suddenly and I wasn't prepared for this like I was prepared for my grandfathers

Ladynay said...

I am thankful that I can think of her and all her flyness at the party. I don't have your nack of describing an outfit Jamiel but it was an outfit a 20 yr old would wear and she pulled it off at 60+ than any 20 something year old down the road! It was revealing, just classy fly. It was very rare to see her dressed down.

Rahman said...

Death is hard but it is a part of life. She sounds like she lives her to its fullest and shares love all over. That means regardless of what happens to the body she lives on forever in you!

Ladynay said...

Correction, her outfit wasn't revealing...it was a one straped, long green cotton fitted top withmatching fitted bottoms and accessories to kill.

Rahman, she has definitely lived a full and adventurous life and I am just thankful to have met her and had a chance to love her and have her love and advice in return.

Freaky Deaky said...

Sorry to hear about Ma Mickey. Keep your head up and be strong for Party Girl.

NewNew said...

awwwww (((hugs))) I am so sorry but I am glad she knows the Lord!!!!

Ladynay said...

I will FD, the whole crew is going to have to be. She was very very close to her mom.

NewNew, you and me both.

deepnthought said...

my heart and prayers go out to you and party girl.

Lady J said...

I am so sorry to hear that. She has my deepest sympathy.

Ladynay said...

DNT, thanx she needs it more than I

J, thanks