Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Did I miss something?

Since no one is really updating today I'll blog again! LOL

Last night Kuntry called and left a message that went sorta like this:

"Hey stranger, this is Kuntry. Call me back."

Okay great, it was nice hearing his voice, but since I was online (dialup) caller ID didn't catch his number, and I deleted it along with his mom and aunts number out my cell so I couldn't call him back! LOL I get to work today and with internet magic I get it and call him. I get voicemail and leave a message telling him to hit me back at work. Okay great.

Awhile goes by and he calls. We make small talk and I ask him what he wanted. This is where the confusion started for me. He goes on about how I haven't changed and why every time he calls he always got to want something? Ummmmmmmmmm how about it's been about 6 months since our last conversation and if you didn't want something you wouldn't have called me???? I didn't say that, but I did say "well most people call people when they want something, that's how it works". He goes on with attitude about how he was just calling to see how I was and him being to busy with xyz to have got up with me sooner. Ummmmm yeah okay! So again I asked him what he wanted and he told me he had to call me back.

Now I have no problems with calls to see how I'm doing, I actually like them. But what was the attitude about? What was meant by me not changing? I don't get it? Did I miss something?

What say you?


I heard a radio personality say that men fake orgasms. Is that true? If your a man have you? If you have what were the circumstances? If your a woman, do you think a man has faked with you before?

One time I did think a dude faked one with me to the point I checked the rubber. The rubber was used so I believed dude. If anyone has faked with me they got over on me cuz I couldn't tell. LOL!

I normally don't ask questions on my blog, but I am curious....


deepnthought said...

you didnt miss nothing. The attitude came because he didnt expect you to call him on his stuff. Thats JMO.

Ladynay said...

But I didn't call him out on anything! LOL Guess that's part of the confusion!

Freaky Deaky said...

Well, he was calling to see how you're doing and maybe feeling you out to see if now is a good time to keep in contact/get back into your life. Now you say you like people calling you to check up but when you did you gave out a what do you want and why are you calling me vibe instead of just having some idle chit chat and catching up. Maybe he picked up or felt that he was bothering you and it hurt his feelings or something.

I'm guessing this has happened before which in his mind warranted the you not changing part. Well that's my two cents. I could be wrong, if so can I please have my change back. Thank you in advance.

Ladynay said...

Hmmmmmmmm I hope that's not the case. I don't think I gave off that vibe but who knows how my message was decoded.

He's never told me anything b4 to match me not changing so you maybe right *shrug*

I'm keeping the 2 cent Indian giver! LOL

Freaky Deaky said...

I want my two cents back. :o(

I don't know I seem to recall you having similar conversations with him before but I could be remembering things wrong in my advancing age.

Really, he told you why he called (maybe that's a gateway to do other things to you but let's give him the benefit of the doubt). There's probably just a disconnect in how you two see things. He could've called just because he wanted to hear your voice, see how you're doing, and whatever. He doesn't see that as a reason. So of course, he's not going to say, "I called you Ladynay because I missed hearing your voice and I was thinking about you."

You see it as, he hasn't called in six months. Now he's calling me out of the blue so he must want something. What do you want? You obviously know him better so what do you think?

Can I please have my two cents back?

Ladynay said...

Need a cane old man? LOL

I am willing to think that it was miscommunication. We probably had 2 different conversations with the same words. That's not uncommon.

You want your money back? Get on your knees and make me give it back! hahahahahahahaha

Freaky Deaky said...

(GASP) You're so...so... Just for the record I'm only going to do it because I really want that two cents back. Now open up and let me show you what an old man can do! I better get my two cents back.

Ladynay said...

Rofl, ur so silly! LOL

The Goddess said...

Funny! If he was just calling to say "Hi" or see how you were doing he wouldn't have gotten all defensive. What a dummy! I don't mean to talk about your friend. Smile I guess next time you wont be so quick to call him back. Lol. I hate when people call and then get a funky attitude.

I don't know how a man could fake an orgasm cause I know I can always feel the pulsing sensation when their cumming. I don't know about anyone else.

I was gonna say something else, but I'll keep that to myself otherwise people may start calling ME "Freaky Deaky" Sorry Freaky! LMAO!

blkbutterfly said...

an acquaintance once told me he'd fakes a few orgasms with his girl. he said he did it because he was tired and she refused to get off it until he came... until then i'd never heard of a man faking it. interesting concept...

as for Kuntry, yeah, i think he just wanted to hear your voice and see what was up with you, but didn't know how to quite say that and was a little (or maybe a lot) offended that you thought he wanted something from you.

Ladynay said...


BB, isn't it interesting! I guess they do it for folks like me who don't feel like the deed is done unless everybody has had at least one. Hey that rhymed! LOL

I talked to him again and I guess I'll never know where the attitude came from cuz he said he didn't know what I was talking about. Whatever. I just wanna bone him! hahahahahahahaha

The Goddess said...

@ Lady my lips is SEALED! LMAO

Ladynay said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ur no fun! LOL