Sunday, September 03, 2006

All types of surprises.....

Well yesterday was Party Girls last bbq for the summer. Which only means we taking it in the house and we party once a month...Oct=Costume Party, Nov=thanksgiving, Dec=Christmas Dinner. I have only been to one turkey day day gathering and I always miss the legendary Christmas dinner because I am at home. But anyways, the cookout was definitely one to remember. When I walked in the house the first person I saw was Wonderwoman. I don't know if I blogged about it but on April 24, 2006 Wonderwoman got run over by her work van. She broke somethings, fractured somethings, bruised other things, needed a few stitches here and there. So naturally she has been recovering and has never been to one Party Girl function this summer. So when I saw her I liked to cried. She looked as if nothing happened to her except for a few bruises on her legs. She is about 90% healed and the only thing that hasn't healed completely are her feet. She looked good and it did my heart good to see her and of course as people were showing up everybody just screamed and hugged her up. It was indeed a pleasant surprise. PartyGirl was the only person who knew she was gonna show face yesterday. That was so hot!

So the party gets going good and in comes Model's son...then Model...then Bossman (my name for Model's husband). I was surprised yet not surprised that he showed up. They acted as if nothing was going on and we all had that "hmmmmmmm" vibe going. Bossman was in a darn good mood and was high off something cuz he was getting his dance on and social on with everyone while Model kinda sat there. Time goes on and one of the guys at the party is an up and coming rapper and of course Bossman starts to talk to dude and they go out to the front to network and then they were going to run to the likka sto'. So I/we took this as an opportunity to find out what the deal was with them. LAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWD have mercy did we have it twisted! Long story very short, Bossman has said yes to every and anything for the past 16 years *I was close on my estimate I said 13-15* he finally says "NO" and SHE is yelling divorce not him!!!!! OMG! The way she was telling it last weekend it was like he brought up the divorce! When she finished telling us we were looking at her like she was f'in crazy! In a way it's Bossman's fault because he created the spoiled monster. Since they got serious in dating Bossman has spoiled her...she don't cook, she don't clean, the only thing she's has to so was pay the bills (with his money) and make love to her husband...literally! Bossman has paid for everything from the hairdos to the draws on her behind for the last 16+serious dating time and has given her anything she wanted. He has actually jumped through hoops for her!!!! I swear you never know what's going on in folks houses! In her type life, the only reason I could see her leaving is if he was abrusive in any manner, but he is not as far as we know. I could even see her being mad because he travels a lot, but then all she has to do it hop on a plane to Europe, cry about it with a boy toy, get over it, and bring her butt home! There has GOT to be more of a reason why she is yelling divorce!

I like Model, she is apart of the crew, but she is one stupid b****! She just don't know how many woman are looking for a guy like Bossman to literally cater to them and love to do it! At the end of the night she really came off as a spoiled, the world revolves around me and no one else, grown a** brat! There's got to be more to this cuz I can't believe that is the reason. I hope she thinks long and hard about the choice that she is making. During my ride back home I told myself..."no wonder Bossman's personal ad requested someone exactly like Model, HE WANTS MODEL!!!!"

Well just had to get that out and kinda update. My mom decided she wasn't coming down and my feelings are hurt but I will get over it. One of my blogger crushes told me he was coming to Raleigh this week! Can you say AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH? I knew you could. LOL! He has an athletic I can kick your butt girlfriend so I can't rape him, but it would be nice to meet him in person tho'.

4 comments:

blkbutterfly said...

you're right, too many women would give an arm and a leg to have a man like Bossman. i hope they can work it out and Model sees how foolish and ungrateful she's being. them again, 16+ years is a long time...
on a side note, i really enjoy reading about your get togethers w/ friends. the few friends i have here in Atlanta and i rarely get together.

Freaky Deaky said...

Now see that's what I'm talking about. Now if I could find Bosswoman then I'd have it made in the shade.

Ladynay said...

BB - I hope they can work it out also. You should call your friends over and just hang out. That's all we do, we just did it more this summer because PartyGirl hooked her backyard up and called us darn near every weekend and told us to come over....

Freaky - I know right!

MzNewAgenda said...

women like her make it hard for women everywhere