By "it" I mean having sex! Interesting isn't it? I thought so.
I was having a chat with Snookums last night and we uncovered that when women are not in the mood, we say no, decline any more advances, and dude just goes to bed without or takes care of if on his own.
But when men are not in the mood and they tell us no. We automatically assume something is wrong. They can never say that they just don't feel like it or they are not in the mood. We always have to ask a million questions "Is it me?""You cheating on me?""You don't find me attractive anymore?" so forth and so on. Most females just can't fathom that a guy could just not be in the mood. Crazy right?
So then when our all our advances are rejected and we ask our questions. We are pissed cuz we aren't getting it on request! LOL!
It's like us females are not used to hearing no or not right now when we make sexual advances. So interesting to me. I never really thought about it till last night.